Pole dancing has become a popular exercise fad, and most men will be very supportive if you sign up for some classes, which are a lot of fun. Being good at pole dancing is very difficult, but you can learn the basics of the sexy pole dance moves just by watching free videos on you-tube. Sway the hips, lots of eye contact, lick your lips, arch your back, etc, and he will be totally enraptured by your movements.
If you don’t have a pole in your house and don’t want to buy one, you can do a lot of this on a four-post bed frame and pretend it’s a pole.
Now, we’re going to make this fantasy even better, by letting him tie your hands to the pole, behind your bed. Having your hands up, either in handcuffs or a silk scarf or fabric, makes your breasts fuller, rounder, and higher, and helps to make your back arch automatically, all of which will be big turn-ons to him.
Be sure to wear high heels, of course, along with sexy lingerie (preferably something new that he hasn’t seen before) or any type of sexy costume that you know turns him on. A cheerleader costume would probably turn him on more than just about anything else.
Have him sit in a chair, or on the bed, close to you, so you can dance for him, and tell him to restrain himself for as long as possible. Your being tied up, helpless, will be turn-on enough for him, but with you dancing, especially in this position, will be unbearably hot to him. When he can’t stand it any more, he should come over to take you onto your knees so he can fuck your mouth, or your throat if you’re able to do that, and/or bend you over to fuck your pussy from behind. He can also fuck you from the front if you life one or both legs up, if the pole is strong enough to support you.
You should keep moving your hips, and moan with pleasure as much as possible. Make sure you have sexy dance music playing. Tell him that you want him to fuck your mouth while you’re kneeling, holding your head with both hands. If your hands are tied, and you’re looking at him while he’s fucking your mouth, it will be possibly the most erotic experience of his life. You’re submitting to him, giving him total control of your body, but in reality it’s you who has the control, because he will be very addicted to you and love you so deeply for being able to give him such pleasure to his core. Not many women will go this far, and of course your goal is to be much better at giving him pleasure than any of the women he’s been with in the past. This will make him certain that “you’re the one” and want to spend the rest of his life with you. He may even propose marriage immediately following a sexual experience like this!
If he likes it and you’re willing, you can make this even sexier by making it a “forced” fantasy, by telling him ahead of time that you’re going to pretend like you don’t want it. You will dance and tease him, but say NO when he wants sex, making him have to force you onto your knees. You can struggle and try to turn away, keeping your mouth closed, so he needs to force his cock into your mouth. At some point you will give in, although you will pretend to try to stop and get away a few times. But slowly you will show your enjoyment, letting his manliness “conquer” you until you’re moaning with pleasure and begging for his cock and his cum. Most men will absolutely love to do something like this, and adore you for it, and most women will also find they are extremely turned on by this, as long as they know it’s a game and have complete trust in their man.
A link to a hancuffed pole-dance blowjob, for inspiration, is here, although you can make this MUCH sexier because you love your man and that energy will come through your performance for him:
http://www.xvideos.com/video707285/pole_dancing_slut_gets_handcuffed_to_the_pole
Now, to take this up another level, combine this fantasy with the “Porn Star Training” by letting him hold the camera and film this, start to finish, and you will have the hottest possible fantasy for most men (at least that you can do without adding a sexy bisexual friend to help you!)